Limit Checklist

[Hunipet Delicioso]

This questionnaire may be filled out by a Sub and provided to their Dom/Top before playing with them. This will provide a quick “head-start” to identifying limits, negotiating and finding common ground for play. For each item, you need to provide two answers:

First write YES or NO next to each item to indicate if you have ever DONE that activity.
Mark N/A if it does not apply to your gender.
Next, indicate for each item how you FEEL about that activity by rating it on a scale of NO or 0 to 5.
NO means you will NOT do that item under any circumstances (a hard limit).
0 (zero) indicates you have utterly no desire to do that activity and don't like doing it (in fact, may loath it) and would ordinarily object to doing it, but you would be willing to do it to please the Dominant if it they really wanted it. (sometimes called a “soft limit”).
1 means you don't want to do or like to do this activity, but wouldn't object if it was asked of you.
2 means you are willing to do this activity, but it has no special appeal for you.
3 means you usually like doing this activity, at least on an irregular/ occasional basis.
4 means you like doing this activity, and would like to experience it on a regular basis.
5 means the activity is a wild turn-on for you, and you would like it as often as possible.
Mark with an asterisk (*) those items which you are willing to do only with you current sex partner(s), but not with casual play-partners.
Note any additional information which might be important for your Dominant to know.
Original list from: http://collarncuffs.com/resources/doku. ... check_list




Abrasion
Age play
Anal plug (public, under clothes)
Anal plugs (large)
Anal plugs (small)
Anal sex (giving)
Anal sex (receiving)
Animal roles
Arm & leg sleeves (arm-binders)
Asphyxiation
Auctioned for charity
Bathroom use control
Beating (hard)
Beating (soft)
Being bitten
Being serviced (sexual)
Bestiality
Blindfolds
Bondage (heavy)
Bondage (light)
Bondage (multi-day)
Bondage (public, under clothing)
Boot worship
Branding
Breast whipping
Breast/chest bondage
Breath control
Brown showers (scat)
Cages (locked inside of)
Caning
Catheterization
Cells/Closets (locked inside of)
Chastity belts
Chauffeuring
Choking
Clothespins
Cock worship
Collars (worn in private)
Collars (worn in public)
Competitions (with other Subs)
Corsets (wearing)
Cuffs (leather)
Cuffs (metal)
Cutting
Dilation
Double penetration
Electricity
Enemas
Enforced chastity
Examinations (physical)
Exercise (forced/required)
Exhibitionism (friends)
Exhibitionism (strangers)
Eye contact restrictions
Face slapping
Fantasy abandonment
Fantasy gang-rape
Fantasy rape
Figging
Fisting (anal)
Fisting (vaginal)
Floggers (thuddy)
Floggers (sting)
Following orders
Foot worship
Forced dressing
Forced homosexuality
Forced masturbation
Forced nudity (around others)
Forced nudity (private)
Forced oral (cunnilingus/fellatio)
Forced servitude
Full head hoods
Gags (cloth)
Gags (rubber)
Gags (tape)
Gates of Hell (male)
Genital sex
Given away to another Dom (perm)
Given away to another Dom (temp)
Golden showers
Hair pulling
Hairbrush spankings
Hand jobs (giving)
Hand jobs (receiving)
Harems (serving w/other subs)
Harnessing (leather)
Harnessing (rope)
Harnessing (chain/metal)
Having clothing chosen for you
Having food chosen for you
Head (giving cunnilingus/fellatio)
Head (receiving cunnilingus/fellatio)
High heel worship
Homage with tongue (non-sexual)
Hot oils (on genitals)
Hot waxing
Housework (doing)
Human puppy dog
Humiliation (private)
Humiliation (public)
Hypnotism
Ice cubes
Including others
Infantalism (wear diapers, become an infant)
Initiation rites
Injections
Interrogations
Intricate (Japanese) rope bondage
Kidnapping
Kneeling
Leather clothing
Leather restraints
Lectures for misbehaviour
Licking (non-sexual)
Manacles & Irons
Manicures (giving)
Massage (giving)
Massage (receiving)
Medical scenes
Modelling for erotic photos
Mouth bits
Mummification
Nipple clamps
Nipple weights
Oral/anal play (rimming)
Orgasm control
Orgasm denial
Outdoor scenes
Outdoor sex
Over-the-knee spanking
Phone sex (serving Dom's friends)
Phone sex (serving Dom)
Piercing (permanent)
Piercing (temporary, play-pierce)
Pony slave
Prison scenes
Public exposure
Pussy/cock whipping
Pussy/cock worship
Religious scenes
Restrictive rules on behaviour
Riding crops
Riding the “horse” (crotch tort.)
Rituals
Rope body harness
Rubber/latex clothing
Saran wrapping
Scratching - getting
Scratching - giving
Sensory deprivation
Serving
Serving as a maid
Serving as art
Serving as ashtray
Serving as furniture
Serving as toilet
Serving as waitress/waiter
Serving orally (sexual)
Serving other doms (supervised)
Serving other doms (unsupervised)
Sexual deprivation (long term)
Sexual deprivation (short term)
Shaving (body hair)
Shaving (head hair)
Sleep deprivation
Sleepsacks
Slutty clothing (private)
Slutty clothing (public)
Spandex clothing
Spanking
Speculums (Anal)
Speculums (vaginal)
Speech restrictions (when, what)
Spreader bars
Standing in corner
Stocks
Straight jackets
Strap-on-dildos (penetrated by)
Strap-on-dildos (sucking on)
Strap-on-dildos (wearing)
Strapping (full body beating)
Supplying new partners for Dom
Suspension (horizontal)
Suspension (inverted)
Suspension (upright)
Suction/cupping (nipples)
Suction/cupping (genital)
Suction/cupping (other)
Swallowing semen
Swallowing urine
Swapping (with one other couple)
Swinging (multiple couples)
Tattooing
Teasing
Tickling
Triple penetration
Uniforms
Vaginal dildo
Vaginal sex
Verbal humiliation
Vibrator on genitals
Video (recordings of you)
Video (watching others)
Voyeurism (watching others)
Voyeurism (your Dom w/others)
Water torture
Wearing symbolic jewelry
Whipping
Wooden paddles
Wrestling
Transformation (gender)
Transformation (animal)
Transformation (Beast/Demon/Other)
Transformation (Statue or other inanimate object)
Restriction of Teleport
Restriction of IM or Chat
Restriction of Inventory control